THE TEXT LIBRARY

A little less overthinking.
A clearer next reply.

Some messages leave you with more questions than answers. Start with the situation that sounds familiar.

01

He liked your message instead of answering it. What does it mean?

He hearted your text and said nothing. Here's what it usually means, what it doesn't, and 3 replies you can send (or not).

02

‘Never text twice.’ Should you double text?

The ‘never text twice’ rule isn't the whole story. Here's when to follow up, when to wait, and 3 ways to handle an unanswered text.

03

He replied to your story instead of your message. Why?

Your question is unanswered, but he's replying to your story. Here's what to make of it and 3 ways to bring the conversation back.

04

He answered your question. Then nothing. No question back.

He answers, then the conversation stops. Here's what a one-sided chat can mean and 3 replies that leave room for him to contribute.

05

‘I'll text you later.’ Do you wait?

He said he'll text you later. Do you wait, reply, or follow up? Here's what the phrase means and 3 ways to respond without chasing.

06

‘hope you're okay x’ after days of silence. What now?

He went quiet, then sent ‘hope you're okay x’. Here's what that check-in does and doesn't tell you, and 3 ways to reply.

07

He asked how your day was. Then never replied.

He started the conversation, you answered, and he went quiet. Here's what to make of an unfinished check-in and 3 ways to handle it.

08

‘Been really busy lately.’ What does that actually mean?

He says he's been really busy lately. Here's how to read the follow-through, not just the excuse, and 3 replies you can send.

09

He replied ‘k’. Is he annoyed?

One letter, lots of overthinking. Here's what ‘k’ can mean in a text, when it matters, and 3 ways to reply (including not replying).

10

We went from texting every day to nothing. What happened?

The daily texts stopped and you're left guessing. Here's what a sudden change in contact can mean, what it doesn't, and 3 ways to respond.

When it's a pattern

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